What Do You Do If You Find Out Your Family Isn't As Kind As You Thought?
It's easy to look for the good in people. We look around and desire closeness and to see the people we are close with as wonderful. But do we see all of each other or do we see just the good, just the bad... or some of each? What happens if you see kindness and goodness in someone who isn't actually those things? That can create quite an internal dilemma. The desire to uphold our picture of someone clashes with what we know to be true. One way to dissipate that contention and