A year ago, Ashley Park and Carlye Rae Tamaren and I sat down on our girls vacation and decided, instead of resolutions, we were going to create a list of three words that we would try to live by each day in the new year. It didn’t mean that we had to wake up the next day and start living life according to these three guideposts, but it meant that for the next 12 months, we would continually check in with our words, evaluate if we were upholding what they embodied in our day