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Let’s do a quick assessment together. Keep note of how many of the following seven narratives you can relate to:

 

1.) TIME, BUT NO ACTION

You have a full block of time to yourself and plan to get a lot of work done. Yet, by the end of the day, not only did very little get done, but you’re not really even sure where the time went.

 

2.) LAST MINUTE MOVEMENT

You’re aware of your project way in advance, though wait until the very last minute to do it, all the while convincing yourself that you work better under pressure. Truth is, this habit leaves you feeling severely stressed out and disappointed because you know your final result isn’t as good as it could have been.

 

3.) IDEAS WITHOUT FOLLOW-THROUGH

You have an amazing idea. Though weeks turn to months and maybe even years. Rather than taking action, that idea keeps getting pushed back and back and back on the to-do list.

 

4.) UNFINISHED PROJECT COLLECTION

You get really motivated to start things with all the best intentions, but the reality is nothing ever comes into completion. At this point, you have a collection of unfinished projects.

 

5.) EMOTION-BASED STAGNANCY

You know that you have talent and skill, but instead of taking action, you often feel like you’re swimming in guilt about how much unused time is flying by. It leaves you feeling overwhelmed.

 

6.) THE COMPARISON GAME

You look around to others and seemingly no one else has this problem, or at least not as bad as you do. They’re apparently all accomplishing huge things, but not you. You feel stuck and frustrated.

 

7.) 'THINGS WILL CHANGE' FANTASY

Simply put, you think to yourself, “one day things will change. It won’t always be this way.”

 

 

From the seven narratives listed, how many could you relate to? My guess would be at least one and based on my years of exploring how procrastination ticks, it’s entirely possible that you may relate to all seven.

 

Please know, if you do, you are in good company. The reason I’m able to cite these narratives with such ease is because they’re very commonly experienced. You are not alone.

 

If you are ready to transform your procrastination from inaction into traction, check out The Procrastination System.

 

Updated: Jul 23

 

These four roles just might be decimating your creativity.

 

If your creative work is consistently leveling off, these four roles may be your prime suspects. At first glance, they may seem like they are work-friendly, but in actuality can completely stall progress. These seemingly useful roles, at the heart of it, tend to cause more destruction than helpfulness.

 

I call them, The Intruder Roles:

 

The Perfectionist, The Busy One, The Muse & The Expert

 

 

 

I’ve deemed them The Intruder Roles because left to their own devices, that’s just what they do: Intrude. They are roles that tend to balloon in our lives so much that they push other roles we play out to the peripheries.

 

We’ll examine each role, one by one. As we are moving through them, feel free to assess if one or more of these roles is regularly played out in your life. If so, it may be crowding out the opportunity for other roles to come to the forefront---Including the Artist role.

 

The Perfectionist.

 

At first glance, the Perfectionist Role in us appears to be a connoisseur of fine work. It aims to perform at the highest level and deliver impeccable standards. Its seeming goal is to offer a pinnacle of excellence and it won’t stop until that is accomplished. It's uncompromising. It’s also unrelenting.

 

For those of us who have played out the Perfectionist Role with regularity, we know it’s a rigid role, almost to the point of paralysis. And it’s constantly driving us towards an endgame that is actually a myth: Perfection.

 

A role with self-imposed, unrealistic standards. No matter the Perfectionist’s final product, the role can easily find fault with it, skirting dangerously on the territory of burnout because it rarely feels satisfied. It can lead us to feeling drained and unfulfilled. Even more seriously, a recent meta-analytic review (University of Western Ontario, 2017) showed that Perfectionists had a higher rate of suicidal ideation.

 

The Perfectionist Role is often an excellent space within us to stow away unfinished explorations towards feelings of self-worth and acceptance.

 

The Busy One.

 

At a glance, the Busy One Role in us appears to be the one that can do it all. It presents as the consummate multitasker. As the constant plate spinner, the role appears to be able to take on anything---and a ton of it. At times, it can veer into the Wonder Woman, super hero realm.

 

The Busy One Role can be an energetic hurricane. Even in just talking about the Busy One, we might feel a pressure mounting in our bodies. It is a role that is constantly in a state of nervous system arousal, which can go hand-in-hand with generating anxiety.

 

It’s a deceiving role, convincing us that our value comes from how much we can cram in, which may not actually be effective. Our brains just aren’t built for excessive multitasking, particularly with technology. A study (Stanford University, 2009) showed that participants that engaged in regular media multitasking, demonstrated a decreased ability to effectively switch from one task to another and filter out irrelevant stimuli. To the Busy One Role, often, phones turn from a piece of technology into an appendage.

 

Overall, this role may keep us highly involved, but ironically, it can lead to us feeling isolated, as we can’t slow down enough to truly experience in the present moment.

 

Overall, this role may keep us highly involved, but ironically, it can lead to us feeling isolated, as we can’t slow down enough to truly experience in the present moment.

 

The Muse.

 

The Muse is a role that we wait on for inspiration to strike. When the Muse Role is within us, in our midst, all of a sudden we feel effervescently enthusiastic to do our work. When the Muse is present, creativity is flowing with ease. It is a romantic work state. Well, more accurately, it is a romanticized work state. And a fickle one, at that.

 

When we are in the habit of waiting to start our work once the Muse comes, we’re actually more in the habit of just waiting.

 

When we are in the habit of waiting to start our work once the Muse comes, we’re actually more in the habit of just waiting. Waiting for the time to be just right. Waiting for the mood. Waiting for the right environment. Waiting for the spark.

 

Deceivingly, we convince ourselves that we can’t work until the Muse Role arrives.

 

The Expert.

 

The Expert Role presents as the voice of a particular theme or subject matter. It can be an extremely useful role, as it can serve as a teacher, a mentor and/or a guide. Though when it comes to creative progress, the Expert Role can actually lead to a severe standstill in two seemingly opposite ways:

 

The first way. The Expert Role can stop us in our tracks when we have an inherent drive towards doing something, though feel we aren’t allowed to yet because we aren’t ‘an expert.’ When the role is overpowering us, we put self-imposed limitations over what we think we are allowed to do. Often times, when the Expert Role is looming, we assume that others will judge or shame us, shaking their heads with disapproval, thinking, 'Who gave them the right to do this? They’re not an expert.'

 

The second way. On the reverse, sometimes the Expert Role can be the near opposite where we want to step into it too quickly, without having done the work beforehand. Rather than actually investing the time it takes to become an expert at something, we want to skip to the front of the class and get the accolades of being considered ‘an expert’ without actually having gained the wisdom and/or knowledge that is inherent to the role.

 

It’s a role that can sometimes serve to frighten us, as we can feel that we aren’t enough to take the leap or we don’t invest enough in it, leading to glossing over the learning, growth and maturation that can serve to really enrich us and those around us.

 

 

The Intruder Roles.

 

Do you play out one or more of these roles with regularity? If so, which ones? Feel free to share in the comments below. You most certainly are not alone, if so. By naming these roles, loud and clear, when we play them out, we are offering ourselves the chance to dig into our creative work with greater ease by either honing in the parts of the role that are helpful to us or by shifting into another role, entirely.

 

It’s when we consciously decide whether or not we want to play out one of these four roles, that all of a sudden, they’re no longer so intrusive. At that point, they’re invited.

 

 

REFERENCES

 

Ophir, E., Nass, C., & Wagner, A. D. (2009). Cognitive control in media multitaskers. Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences, 106(37), 15583-15587.

 

Smith, M. M., Sherry, S. B., Chen, S., Saklofske, D. H., Mushquash, C., Flett, G. L., & Hewitt, P. L. (2018). The perniciousness of perfectionism: A meta‐analytic review of the perfectionism–suicide relationship. Journal of Personality, 86(3), 522-542.

 

 

 

Preciousness has an intrinsic battle.

 

When I state the term preciousness, when it comes to creativity, I think it’s safe to say it can be easily interpreted in two ways. Thus, the internal conflict.

 

 

For the first interpretation, let me ask: What would it mean to you, if I said, “don’t get too precious with your artform?”

 

Perhaps, you might think, don’t be overly careful with it, or fussy or too serious. Wearing kit gloves. To resist lingering on one small aspect of it with too much deliberation. To put it simply, not overthinking it. Maybe it’s not getting to the point where something becomes idolized or untouchable.

 

Yes. Absolutely. And when it comes to preciousness, here's the 'yes, and' with the second definition:

 

Precious is defined as an object, substance, or resource of great value; not to be wasted or treated carelessly. Its origins are in the Latin, ‘pretium,’ meaning price, value & worth.

 

So with preciousness, at its core, we’re dealing with the concept of “great value.” Something “to not waste.” Something to “not treat carelessly.” Something that has “worth.”

 

Ironically, and perhaps seemingly a flat-out contradiction, we want this definition to be our foundation as we are looking for ways to not get too precious with our creativity.

 

Together, let’s think. What might be some of the realistic outcomes of being too precious with our work? Whether it be a script, a novel, an article we’re writing or wanting to write. Getting ready for an audition, a design project, a creative business venture, a song concept. Whatever it might be.

 

Here are some very common outcomes that as a therapist and an artist, I’ve observed firsthand:

 

Perhaps you have a great idea, though it never really gets into the action phase. It just sits in your mind, maybe even for years: Ideas without action

 

Perhaps you chronically begin projects but they really don’t get very far into actual development: Chronic false starts

 

Maybe you linger or “tinker” over that first little push so much that it brings the rest of the work to a screeching halt: Tinkering

 

Perhaps you’ve worked hard on a project, but you’ve never quite brought it to a close. Flat out, it’s not finished: Lack of follow-through

 

Perhaps you actually do finish, but then don’t take the next steps in sharing with others: No Visibility

 

These outcomes all have one thing in common: At best, a state of stagnancy. At worst a state of full-on paralysis or even demise.

 

If you can relate to one or more of these categories, first take heart in knowing that it most definitely isn’t just you. We’re talking about symptoms of perfectionism, procrastination and well-worn paths that lead to dead ends for the Artist Role.

 

So with preciousness, the big reveal here: Our artforms, something precious, that intrinsically have “great value,” “to not be wasted,” “to not be treated carelessly,” “that have worth” are in fact getting completely devalued by being too precious.

 

Name the irony flat out: When we get too precious with our artform, we aren’t treating our artform as precious.

 

Even more to the point, being too precious with our work means our work doesn’t get done or experienced by others.

 

I absolutely want you to treat your creativity with preciousness, though true to it’s definition. Something of “great value.” Something “to not be wasted. Something to “not be treated carelessly.” Something that has “worth.”

 

Effective preciousness is getting the work to completion and allowing it to be experienced by others. That’s the type of treating your artform as precious, we want more of.

 

Effective preciousness is getting the work to completion and allowing it to be experienced by others. That’s the type of treating your artform as precious, we want more of.

 

Now go and create, you were created to.

 

If preciousness is a challenge for you, feel free to watch this video devoted to it, as it offers a practical exercise to put to good use!